✨ Welcome everyone!
You know those moments that just click ? Where the world slows down, the page pulls you in, and suddenly everything feels… right? Often, I find myself returning to a ritual that does exactly that.
No pressure, no productivity, no “catching up.” Just me, a lit candle, a square of chocolate, music in the background, and a book I’ve been thinking about all day. It reminds me how powerful it can be to intentionally create space to read.
I realize some people may be a little out of practice or haven’t ever tried it! So, I put together a little guide to help you build your own reading ritual. Whether you’re a night owl or a Sunday morning cozy daydreamer, this is for anyone craving a moment of stillness inspired by a candle and a story.
You’ll find scent pairings, playlist recs, tiny rituals, and my favorite indulgences (yes, chocolate included 🍫).
Let’s set the mood…
📖Your Reading Ritual
A 5-Step Guide to a Bookish Escape
🌙 Introduction
There’s something sacred about curling up with a good book. It’s not just about the story, it’s about how you enter it. This guide helps you shape your own reading ritual: a sensory invitation to slow down, light a candle, press play, and escape into the pages with intention.
Let’s begin.
① Choose Your Setting
Your environment shapes your experience. Whether you're reading in bed, on the porch, or on a cozy corner of the floor, choose a space that feels yours.
📍 Try this:
- Dim the lights or let the golden glow set the tone
- Tuck in with a blanket or big pillow
- Turn your phone on Do Not Disturb
- Place your book where you can reach it. Have your reading light charged and ready or your e-reader charged and ready to go.
This is your threshold. Cross it mindfully.
② Set the Mood with Scent
Scent has the power to transport your mind just like a good story can. Use a candle to anchor your ritual and evoke the emotion of the book you're reading.
🕯 Candle Scent Ideas that are popular for reading:
- Fantasy or Romance → Soft florals, honey, amber
- Thriller or Mystery → Leather, smoke, dark woods
- Historical or Literary → Tea, parchment, spice
- Dark Academia → Tobacco, old books, bergamot
- Witchy or Magical → Clove, myrrh, resin, incense
Light slowly. Let the scent bloom while the story unfolds.
③ Play a Mood-Setting Soundtrack
A good playlist adds texture to your reading. At Torch & Tome, we’ve curated bookish Spotify soundtracks to suit your mood. Whether you’re deep in a high fantasy epic or nestled into a rainy-day classic, I believe we have something for you.
🎧 Choose a playlist:
- “Witchy & Otherworldly”
- “Rainy Day & Dark Academia”
- “Feeling Like Royalty”
- “Spicy & Slow Burn Romance”
- “Country”
- “Romantasy & Soft Magic”
- “Reading In The Wild”
- “Heartbreak & Healing”
- “In My Villain Era”
- “Elsewhere”
- “Epic High Fantasy”
- “Train Like A…”
- [Link to The Library to browse]
Press play and let the music melt the noise around you.
④ Create a Small Ritual
A ritual marks the moment. It doesn't have to be elaborate, just intentional.
🔮 Try one of these:
- Brew a cup of tea, coffee, or hot chocolate and hold the warm cup in your hands for a moment.
- Grab a favorite snack. Savory, sweet, nourishing, homemade, or even a guilty pleasure! I absolutely love having a bowl filled with Dove Chocolate’s by my bookshelf.
- Light a candle and tune in to your sense. At least 2 of our 5 senses will do!
- Breathe deeply for 3 slow counts
- Keep a soft blanket or something cozy near you
Let this moment feel like crossing into another world.
⑤ Sink In Without Guilt
Read without multitasking. Let the laundry wait. Let the to-do list dull in the corner of your mind. Maybe even turn your phone off. This time is yours.
📚 You don’t have to finish a chapter. You don’t have to highlight, annotate, or perform your reading. You just have to be in it. Let the pages and your mind carry you wherever they go.
💌 Want More Rituals & Playlists?
Visit The Library at www.torchandtomecandleco.com for more curated reading rituals, candle pairings, and Spotify soundtracks.
💫 With love & quiet magic,
Carefully crafted. Rooted in nature. Inspired by story.